What are the practical ways this presents in your life and how do you manage to deal with them? By sharing our strategies we can help each other to understand the refinements involved and how to meet them.
As part of following this precept I try to ensure I do not take from the government what is rightfully or honestly theirs when it comes to paying taxes, for instance. However, this plays out in many subtle ways in my life and I am forever finding myself having to find new ways to deal with situations and stand up for my values graciously. What great training and mindfulness practice it is, I am forever grateful for the training the precepts provide.
For example, we recently had a tradesman around. We had already paid the basic rate for his work but during the job there were some extras to pay for. With one example, he said, "That will be $25 if you pay cash" but $27.50 if I have to give you an invoice.
"I'd like an invoice thank you" I said, "I like to pay my GST". The response I got could basically be summed up as "You're mad!" It was also made clear to me that it was a bother to prepare an invoice.
It would have been very easy to have quit at this stage and just to have made it easy for everyone. I had some guilt arise about burdening him with more work. I also had some thoughts arise tempting me to save my money and just pay cash, it was easy to say, "oh it's just such a small amount who cares, the Government won't miss it, the Govt. won't know" ... but I knew.
I knew if I paid cash although it would save me money, and save him work, we were basically stealing money from the government. So I just said, "I'd like to pay the GST please".
This scenario is played out regularly with several trades people, and at much higher amounts. It shows me how easy it is not to follow this precept.
I think the theory on the precepts is one thing, but living them in a world isn't so easy. What examples do you have for this precept and how have you dealt with them?
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